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The day after we buried my mother, I left.

I didn’t even know I was leaving. I just got in my car for a drive and someplace in Nevada I realized I wasn’t going back.

I guess it’d been about 6 months since leaving when I was in a car wreck. The man driving the truck was drunk, he came through the intersection without even so much as making the tires skid. Stopped my heart.

Death calls my dad. He was there just to see me wake up. And then it was another 6 months before I saw him again.
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[note. a teenage max]


“You like fire, boy?”

Startled you turn to look at the man standing next to you and are surprised to see he’s a firefighter. The firetruck is pulled up to the curb, blocking the small crowd from getting too close. Nothing to be done except maybe control the spread. The house is going to burn to the ground. It’s vacant, no harm maybe.

You watch the flames lick against and consume what’s left of wood and structure, turning everything to black and crumbling to ash. Fire takes favorites, devouring quickly across some edges and more slowly with others. You breathe that in.

“You best get on the other side of it,” the man says to you. His side. Makes you wonder about the possibility. He sees something in the way you watch the heat, the light, the kiss against everything the flames touch. “The side you’re on, ain’t going to bring you to good end.”
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[note. a young teenage max]

My sister walks into the kitchen like she never left. I think I’ve grown a few inches since she’s been gone. I learned early that she’s good at getting gone. I’m thinking she learned that skill early after living with him.

“Where’s dad?” Her eyes scrape across me. I rub her wrong. She rubs me wrong. Nice when things cut both ways.

I shrug.

“Come on Max, I need to talk with him,” she fixes her blue eyes on me. She gets another shrug. “Is he in his office?” Give her a slight nod. “Some things never change.” So true.
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I left because she was gone.
I left because I didn’t hate you … yet.
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In my mail this morning I find a back issue of Scientific American. From my father. He’s the only one that would send such a thing with nothing else in the envelope. Not even a return address.
 
The cover is “Why We Kiss.” Odd from him of course, for in as much as he was affectionate with my mother, he is not exactly a people person. And after years of living with him, I’m pretty certain that for him kissing is simply an antecedent to fucking.
 
My mother liked kissing. She seemed to like kissing him, even when he didn’t want to be kissed.
 
Flipping to the article on kissing, I read that ‘a kiss triggers a cascade of neural messages and chemicals that transmit tactile sensations, sexual excitement, feelings of closeness, motivation and even euphoria.’ I like kissing. And like my mother, I like kissing just for kissing and don’t pound on it as simply a doorway.
 
As I finish reading the article, I notice there is a page that is flagged with a meticulously turned corner. This is a letter to the issue asking about sleep walking.  I realize this is the reason my father sent me this back issue. A frustration for him was what he called this weakness in me. That my mind did not follow a pattern to turn itself off quite like it should when asleep. Still doesn’t. I’m convinced that this annoyed him because when I was small, I did not stay where he would put me, which was safe in my bed and out from under his large feet. 
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“Hey baby,” her hand on the side of my bed and I sleepily scoot over to make way. I’m so small in my bed that my feet don’t reach the foot and my wriggling toward the wall side makes plenty of room for my mom to lay down on top of the covers next to me.

She lies still with her arm thrown and bent underneath her head. Her hair twists around her shoulders, pale strands like the moon. If I’m dark like him, she’s the not-him. “I didn’t mean to wake you, I can’t sleep. It’s so quiet,” she smiles at me and brushes her hand across my cheek.

For a while I lay and listen to the silence of the house. He’s not home, that makes it quiet. His snores usually fill the every recess of the house, an uneven white noise that helps her sleep.

“Your grandfather snored. All my life I would sleep in whatever small place we had, and his sounds would fill to the roof and I knew all was good because he was home, and I could sleep.“

So sometimes when it’s too quiet I can’t sleep. Not because of the quiet, but because the quiet makes me think of her, and that, and her being gone.
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She’s taking the training wheels off your bike. “Only babies use these,” your sister shakes her head at you. At age six, you know for certain that you are NOT a baby. “I’ll hold onto you until you get the hang.”

Steadying the bike while you get on she lets you sit there for a moment while she holds onto the seat. “Ready?” she says and you can feel her give the bike a push. She completely does not hold onto you.

You have the bike for a few free and wonderfully fast feet. Then you hit a dip and a bump and the pavement. Heels of your hands, elbows and knees skin against the asphalt. Standing up, you feel tears sting hot in your eyes. You will not cry in front of her. Ever. Wipe your nose, pick up the bike, shrug her off, you get back on to try again.
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... a young max


100 wrds with him

“Everyone does the four in hand,” he looks down at your hands, “you should learn a Windsor. Half at least.” You’re pretty sure nothing about him is by half.

“Wide around narrow, up and through then down,” he shows you, his hands on yours. “Back around to front, up through the loop, tighten.” You cough, he’s pushing as he’s talking and it’s so, so tight. Pleased, you look in the mirror. Just like him.

But then he undoes the knot, takes the tie to hand back to you. “Do it again yourself. And do it until you get it right.”



100 wrds with her

“Come here baby, let me help you.” In front of the mirror she moves to stand behind you, dropping a soft kiss to the top of your head. Placing the tie around your collar, “you look so handsome.” A smile in the mirror just for you. “Now, run the rabbit round, and let him come to ground behind, then watch him jump up and through.” You watch her slender hands with your hands, you smile. “He rounds around again…” she finishes the knot to gently tighten. “You’re getting so grown. So perfect.” You look in the mirror. Just like her.
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... a young max


“Before you were even you, I knew you’d have brown eyes.” She’s quiet and introspective, sliding her finger down and along the straight line of your nose. “Silly I know, that I should know such a thing. I just imagined it is all, and then when your eyes had taken in enough of the world, they went from blue to muddy to brown. Like his.”

“I don’t want his eyes, I don’t want his anything.” A scowl from you, that is just like his. “I want what’s you.”

She tugs at your earlobes, ever so slightly detached. “These are mine, my Max. You have his height and his hair and his eyes and at times I think you have his mind. But these,” she kisses you there and tickles you there, “these are all mine.”
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[a middle school max]


“No body’s here?” Your friend asks as you sit in your kitchen. You’re lighting matches. Feeling them burn down to your fingers until your fingers burn.

“Yeah, my dad’s here.”

“Where?” He asks as you think about the first matches, the white phosphorous kind.

“Upstairs asleep.”

“You’re not thinking he’s coming down?” They were poison. One book was enough poison to kill a person.

“Nah.”

“How long does he stay asleep?” He’s looking disbelieving, while you’re thinking about red tipped matches.

“I don’t know, sometimes a few days maybe.”

“Man, that’s fucked up.” Strike one, set the book on fire.
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multiple myeloma


...that's not even two seconds
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The last drink I shared was last night. I think it went much better than the first drink I shared.

Mad Dog 20/20. You know, I think it still comes in six delicious flavors. When I was thirteen I went for the red-grape. Classic. Because MD 20/20 is so fucking classy.

I remember my dad showed. He often had this way of just showing up. Still and all it is like he has some kind of homing device on me. Thank fuck I didn’t throw up in that damn car of his. The fortified deliciousness of red-grape probably would’ve stained.
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